THE OVER-GIVER

You’re the go-to. The reliable one. The person who keeps everything running... while quietly thinking,
“Why is it always me?”

You equate love with sacrifice.
Worth with usefulness.
You take pride in being the one who shows up… no matter what.

But when you give more than you have, and still feel invisible?
That’s not just stress.
That’s resentment. The slow-burn kind.

And if we’re being really honest…
You might be doing a little bit of quiet martyring.
(With love. We’ve all been there.)

What You Actually Need:

✔️ Permission to stop doing everything without losing your identity
✔️ Space to be supported, not just admired for holding it all together
✔️ Recognition that your value isn’t earned by how much you sacrifice

You don’t need to stop being generous.
You just need to stop using generosity as proof of your worth.

When You Shift This:

• You stop keeping score in silence.

• You start asking for what you need - before you snap.

• You feel seen, not just needed.

Want Help Shifting Out of This Pattern?

You’re not needy, dramatic, or asking for too much.
You’ve just been taught that your value comes from self-sacrifice.

But you’re allowed to change that.

A personalized, low-cost support tool is coming soon to help you do just that.

In the meantime, keep an eye on your inbox.
I’ll be sending real-talk resources, insights, and support — all designed to help you stop simmering in silence and start feeling like yourself again.

Because you don’t have to fall apart for people to finally appreciate you.
And you don’t have to do it alone.